Wow did that feel good

Posted on: January 22, 2010 - 1:56pm
Wow did that feel good
 So several months ago my son who is in 7th grade was not wanting to go to school.  Another kid who is in the same grade and a student of mine came in for a lesson around that time and out of the blue told me what some other kids were doing to my son, calling him fagot etc. So this kid is a friend of my son and was upset about these kids picking on my son. Finally my son told me about it and we let the school know and they took action on it right away. But both this other kid and my son named the same people as the ones doing it with the same girl as the little ring leader. She was in fact picking ob several kids this way.
So today her father called to sign her up for music lessons, seems that she wants to learn to play piano. Most of the other kids at her school who take private music lesson take them here. They were told no that we would not teach a little girl who was homophobic or a bully or an instigator and that she was all three and reminded them that their daughter had been in trouble with the principle for these three things this year and that she was not welcome to study here as it would make several of our students uncomfortable to have her here. Also that out teachers would not tolerate such an attitude and would not deal with her or with a family which allowed a child to be this way.  
My, didn't that feel good and it sent a message to that family and little girl. Now she can see the other kids her age performing on television etc and know that she cannot be one of the ones who performs in our shows and that she will not be able to attend the music school with the finest reputation in our area. We also know that it was most likely one of the music teachers at the middle school who recommended our school to her parents and that several of her friends take lessons here.
Now the day is off to a good start.

Posted on: January 22, 2010 - 4:14pm #1
I wish the teachers at our school were like that O.O My assistant principle is wicked homophobic, and threatened to give both my girlfriend (well, now she's my ex, but anyways~) an office refferal, for the fact that i had my arm around her-_- EVERY heterosexual couple at my school does. Do they care? No. Two girls would get a refferal though. *so we held hands :) **which he couldn't do anything at all about***
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Posted on: January 23, 2010 - 9:04pm #2
Wow.. That didn't make much sense at all, now did it? XD FAIL O>O the basic point was that I have an extremely homophobic school, in which my (now ex) girlfriend and I were threatened refferals for the fact that I had my arm around her. All the heterosexual couples at my school can effing make out in the courtyard, but we would get an office refferal because we're two girls-_- Effed up? Very. -_-'
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Posted on: January 24, 2010 - 3:36pm #3
 I hope that things get better but it is going to take parents who will step in and not tolerate it. 
Posted on: January 24, 2010 - 11:06pm #4
Hmm.. Although most of my gay/lesbian/bisexual friends have homophobic parents who themselves don't tolerate it. Savannah's *the girl who I referred to in the other message* parents told me to stay the f*uck away from there daughter and never call/speak to again-_-' *Haha, like that was gonna happen XD Oh the joys of secrecy, and avoiding th parentals. *sarcasm*** Blip. My current girlfriend, Rhiannon, *hah. same name as me. So epic XD** would be disowned if her parents knew she had a girlfriend. Bleh. I severely dislike living in Southern rural Florida, and living in fear of being beaten and raped by some redneck who wants to show me what I'm missing or some effed of thing like that T.T I wanna leeavee.........
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Posted on: January 25, 2010 - 12:53pm #5
 My childhood was spent in the farm country of North Florida and people were not homophobic around me. I had a at least one bi grandparent and one bi uncle who was partnered with a man. The family basically shielded me from such things happening to me. Now when I moved to Texas all bets were off it was like moving into a nightmare. Luckily for me I could fight so though they tried to get me a few times I always came out on top. The school stopped them from messing with me much simply because they knew that I would end up hurting their precious straight boys in a fight.
Good luck.
Posted on: January 25, 2010 - 7:43pm #6
Thanks... My lovlie now carries an etching tool, and told me never to walk the school campus alone. *she takes art, so she, uhm.. "borrowed.." a very sharp object, and now carries it with her. And a spork.. but that's just an inside joke>.>** I myself am a hardcore pacifist and refuse to be violent, even if they are being violent toward me. If it's only one person, I'll take it, and show them how they do not affect me with their violence.*my friends are confused as to how I think that way>.>*.. However if it's a group of guys... running like hell sounds good to meO.O
 Today wasn't as bad as Friday at school, luckily. I just got called a faggot, a lesbo, and a few other names that generally just irked me. I didn't get screamed at or anything, but I guess that may be because I took a bunch of alternate routes, like my lovlie told me to... I didn't want to run into that guy I ran into Friday who scared the hell out of me, and threatened my lovlie and I. I didn't catch what he said though, but that may be or the best, you know? She is capable of defending herself, unlike me.*the etching tool helps O.O* I assume things will get worse in a week, or so. That's how long it took last time.. Bleh. I am afraid to walk around in town though, especially with my parents. If they hear someone call "Dyke!" when I walk by, they may be pissed that people found out 'bout me, or just the general fact that I have a girlfriend. They know I'm a lesbian, but they think that if anyone else knows it will somehow ruin my chance at a scholarship... even though I intend to leave here, and get a scholarship for a school across the continent, faaar away from here-_-'
but anyways... yeah. -_-'
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Posted on: January 27, 2010 - 9:49pm #7
 wow, your school kinda sounds like mine nemo, one of my exes and i had the attention of the entire school administration... heh. but i was called names on a daily basis my senior year, which kinda stopped after my friend alex decked this kid in the face when we were walking to class, i think he didn't report it because he wouldn't want anyone to know he pretty much got shut down by a girl. it sucks when administrations are homophobic and such, mine was and wasn't all at the same time, it was weird.

rob, you rock my socks, i hope when i'm older i can be like you. you have the most amazing stories.
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Posted on: January 27, 2010 - 11:59pm #8
 Because I have had a strange life so far.
Posted on: January 28, 2010 - 4:07pm #9
 Dude I know right? Everywhere within a 30mi radius of my school is homophobic-_-'  And I heard new rumours about me :D Joy! *sarcasm* Yeah. They're effed up rumours though. I have no idea who makes this sh*t up-_-' And I'm being harrased by rednecks on the bus now. Isn't that lovely? They started making fun of me, and when I completely ignored them, watching Smoth videos with Koda on his iPod, they started kicking the back of my seat, as they insulted me>-< I sit in the front, and the chick who drives the bus did absolutely nothing about it. What a nice woman! :D *more  sarcasm*
 So- two questions
 One- How bad does it get?
 Two- How long does it take before it gets better?
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Posted on: January 30, 2010 - 11:26am #10
 This is part of the reason that we have historically seen a movement by queer people to more urban areas. This is also part of what resulted in the Ghetoization of queer people into the 'gayborhoods' coming out of WWII.
I hope that it gets better for you soon. I had ways of making people pay when I was in school if they did something really nasty but usually I just ignored them. But since I didn't have to deal with it at home it was not full on 24/7.
Just remember they never pick on you as something about you, you just simply are not the reason. It is always about the person doing to picking.
Posted on: January 30, 2010 - 7:55pm #11
 Thanks Maestro ^^
 Haha, when it first started, back in November, I have a friend named Dean, and there was this kid named Robbie, who was always a pervert to me, and I got really pissed off at lunch oe time, 'cause he wouldn't leave me alone, and Dean was like "You want me to beat im up for you? :D" so, of course, I said "No, violence is not the answer. I'm a pacifist, remember?" His reply? "I'm not"
 Sooo... after lunch.. I dunno what Dean did to the kid, but the next time I saw Robbie, he appologized profusely, and said he'd never do it again... >.> I don't want to know what Dean did-_-'  But the point was, at least I have good friends, that WILL fight for me.... and I met a crazy guy yesterday.... who has been arrested several times for getting into fights and putting people in the hospital. He got into half of the fights because the other guy he was fighting hit a girl........ Sooo...... Befriending him seems like a good idea.... I love making new friends anyways, soo... yay ^^
 Although.... I don't want someone to be hurt in my name....oh! Speaking of pacifism *which I wasn't talking about at all>.>* I finally got around to actually making my new profile and email and stuff for the thing I'm going to start in my mad strive for helping others and bringing peace to the world around me. **one of my life long goals is to become like Ghandi...with out the ingulfing myself in flames part....... >.>** Sooo...  yeah random stuff like that... talking to people; helping people, the works :)
http://www.myspace.com/themessageofpeace  <-------- That's what I'm working on. I should have it done by the end of tomorrow... I just need to do the layout and avatar and stuff. I have it under my fake name *Nemo Willikers* and a fake age *21*, so i'm an annon.
 But... the point of me oing all of this is so that, because I cannot help myself, I will help others..... Like how if someone is about to get punched, I'll step in front of them and take the hit for them.... but with...words..and stuff>.>
 Wow... this was a long message.....
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Posted on: February 1, 2010 - 12:56pm #12
 Maybe by helping others you will help yourself. It has done a lot for me. IT is ultimately why I ended up becoming  a Draoi and teacher (the Draoi is the traditional priest of the culture of Gaelic speaking peoples)
Posted on: February 1, 2010 - 6:27pm #13
 Oh that's awesome!^^
 So, Rhiannon and I are becoming a lot closer^^ I mean, people continue to insist on being total jerks and perverts to us, and reffering to us as less than human, but all that is drawing us closer together, you know? I wrote her a song, **she hasn't heard it yet, it's played on the piano, with vocals, and I can't record it. She should be coming to my house later this week so she can hear it then** and she makes a bunch of videos on youtube, so she made me a tribue, which is uberly cute *It's made with bunny furries which represent me, bacause my favorite animal iss a bunny, and rat furries bacause her favorite animal is a rat :)** The song she used for it became "our" song, because of a line in it "They can't touch you now." **yes. I am randomly babbling because this is the happiest relationship I've ever been in, and so far, the most succassful. ^^ **
 But anyways..... wow.... lost my train of thought...I was going somewhere with this...... >.>.....<.<......v.v..... eh, anyways............
 How was your day? :)
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Posted on: February 2, 2010 - 1:04pm #14
 My days have been busy. I'm getting ready to put someone in a rehab and it is kind of stressful. Sounds like things are looking up for your relationship. As people bother you remember that they are on the outside and don't let them effect the inside. Keep a clear idea of who you are at your center and then maintain yourself from your center to your edges and just don't let people damage the things that you up. 
Posted on: February 2, 2010 - 4:23pm #15
Thankyou, I'll do that^^
 My day was just...random XD I had "RE: Your Brains" stuck in my head, and was randomly singing about eating people's brains in all my classes..or at least humming it >.> People in my TTR *time to read.* were being extremely annoying though-_-' *again* Least favorite class, definately. : P You're SUPPOSED to be completely silent the whole time, just reading *21 minute class*, however, all the people in my TTR are loud rednecks who talk about getting high with their friends, and drinking beer-_-' Such intellectual students, really. *sarcasm* It's one of the classes where all the students are homophobic and where T-shitrs with the male and female signs intertwined with the giant cross and some anti-gay slogan>-< 'pissed me off.  But anyways..
 So, why is the person being sent to rehab? I know a guy who went to rehab.. he tried to commit suicide several times. He's gay and where he lives everyone hates him, and around that time he was being beaten by his "boyfriend" *I use quotations because he was only living with him because he had nowhere else to go* Buuut... yeah.
... I did something awesomeO.O I jumped out my window yesterday, out of curiousity to see if I could do it. *when my brother had the room, he used the window* And I did. Soo... then I found this ladder that used to be part of my bunk bed before I disassembled it and moved into my closet to sleep in XD So I set it outside my window and I don't have to use my front door anymore :D
 
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Posted on: February 3, 2010 - 11:03am #16
 Well, he is about to turn 17 and likes to get high or drunk on whatever he can. He is straight. He lives in a stable home, the same one that he has lived in since he was three. Both father and stepmother are present and generally lead sober lives. He stays in trouble and is getting put on probation for the third time this week. Even the medication for the dog comes up missing and has been found in his room along with multiple bongs and empty cough medicine bottles. No, this kid is doing it to himself.
Posted on: February 3, 2010 - 4:18pm #17
Woah O.O What a guy.
 So last night, *speaking of Angel* Skylar, Drew's brother, decided he was going to make Drew feel like an arse, so he told everyone Angel commit suicide ****it may help to know Angel is the boy I was speaking of in the other message. Drew is his "boyfriend" and Skylar is Drew's brother**** In this sick joke of his, he was NOT supposed to tell Seth or me. *Seth is like my brother, and Angel is in love with him* Skylar disregarded this and told us both. Angel is one of my best friends, and talks to me every night. He knows everything about me, and I know everything about him, and we help eachother through our issues, and I've convinced him out of suicide three times. Well, last night, Skylar told me Angel hung himself. I was so destroyed, I was like crying in feltal position until I couldn't breathe anymore, and felt like I was going to be sick.  Then later, Angel loggs online. I was sooo confused... So he tells me about Skylar's sick joke and everything, which made me very much disrespect Skylar-_-'
Buuuuuut... thank the Goddess he is still alive and whatnot.  soooooooooo yeah. :)
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Posted on: February 11, 2010 - 11:38am #18
 That joke sounds messed up. You will have to take things that this joker says with lots of salt in the future. That kind of stress is unhealthy for people. 

Posted on: February 12, 2010 - 4:10pm #19
Your replies to tings are beginning to sound like a horoscope, or a tarot reading. Very interesting :) So, finally, for the fist time in weeks, I had an awesomesauce day :D Rhiannon and Cristen are coming over tonight and it'll be beastly epic :) Definately going to troll douche bags online **trolling is like.. going onto an anonnymous chatroom *like omegle XD* and messing with people until they disconnect. The headline being "Omegle- Talk to strangers!" and "You are now speaking with a stranger. Say hi!" people tend to just say "u horny?" and "nasl?" and "You have a webcam?" So most of these guys are total douche bag homophobes. So I screw with them XD They're annoying perverts. But aanyways. Tonight Rhiannon and I are having like.. I guess you could call it a first date?^^ He bought us tickets to this thing that's at the high school tonight.. It shall be epic :) Haha, we vowed that one day, we will go to walmart together in banana suits and sing to the bananas, and random costumers, but as a date XD Also epic :) So anyways, random babbling. How was your day?^^
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Posted on: February 12, 2010 - 11:22pm #20
 Pretty easy day for me on Fridays I start late and end early and most of my students are easy to handle. Tonight I need to chill and work on writing a study guide for a religion course.
Posted on: February 13, 2010 - 9:54pm #21
Tonight, I think I may just have a normal night of sleep. In the past seventy-two hours, I've had maybe twelve hours of sleep in all XD Probably not that healthy, but whatever. :) I had an awesomesauce day, so I'm just going to sleep normally tonight, and hopefulyl have another awesomesauce day tomorrow. Hsppy Valentines Day!^^
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Posted on: February 14, 2010 - 10:22pm #22
 I'm glad to read that you have had a good day. even a good 'V' day.
Posted on: February 15, 2010 - 12:21am #23
Well, my day was pretty cool. Unfortunately, though, I didn't get to see Rhiannon. It would be much too suspicious with the parentals. Buuut... I saw The Wolfman this morning.. Someone else gets torn apart like every ten minutes.. I was really tired this morning because it wasn't even noon yet (lulz), so I kept starting to drift off to sleep, then someone else would get torn in half, and suddenly I wasn't so sleepy XD Went to Books-A-Million, got some zombie feild notes, because I'm a dork XD Wandered around the mall, and got a pentacle ring that I'v wanted for years, and finally found :D it has little infinity sings in it :) Aaaand I went to Ichiros, but the chef was a douche -_- and I went to the World Market, and discovered that Italian soda is nothing like Japanese or American soda... not at all.... but it was sweet but when I swallowed it it burned my throat and was kindof gross... but I drank all 24 oz of it XD ....Then I went to Walmart! :D Now i'm back to being a dork.... like the shirt I got at Walmart with the entire Marvel universe on the front of it, to express the dork in me! :D Ho was you V-Day?^^
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