Really now? Just...really?-___-'

Posted on: June 9, 2010 - 7:10pm
Really now? Just...really?-___-'
So.
On Monday, I got to school, and I didn't see Rhiannon (had been my girlfriend since January) anywhere, until the bell sounded, and I Was walking to first period. Well, when I did see her, there was clearly something wrong.
Weeelllll....apparently, her uncle (whom is her legal guardian, and is also extremely homophobic) found our notebook, which includes every single conversation we've had since I considered coming out of the closet. It's also the only way we've been able to talk to each other because her uncle found out once before, and told her to stay the eff away from me, and never talk to me again, and so on.
Well. He found our notebook. Last time he flipped his lid. This time it's incomparable. Well, he skipped around a bit in our notebook, clearly not reading any actual sentences. I don't even know what he was basing anything on. But anyways, he started making all these false claims, and saying we were doing drugs, and we were sexually active, and all this shyt. Okay, first off- I'm an abstinent virgin, and I am firmly against sex before marriage. Secondly, I'm so againt drugs I don't even drink caffeine. Thirdly, the notebook doesn't say anything about drugs OR sex. Well, he called the effing State's Attorney's Office, and tried to get a restraining order against me to keep me away from Rhiannon. Not only that, but he's also trying to press charges saying I "Corrupted" her with sex and homosexuality. -______-'''''''''''' In the state of Florida, sex before you turn 18 is a felony and one of us would be charged with statutory rape. She is older, though. By two years. We didn't have sex or do drugs, but if they chose not to believe that for some reason, would it be her charged because she's older? I'm so confused by all this stuff....... :/
So, I found out about all of this Monday, and have been totally paranoid and freaking out since then. I absolutely despise homophobia, and the fact that I have to be paranoid all the time, every day, because I think that I'll get jumped by some rednecks who think homosexuality is corrupting souls. I have witnesses that I didn't do anything. And there's probably some way I could prove that I'm a virgin. (you can prove that, right? >_>) 
But anyways, it's all jimmy jacked, and I don't know what to do, or where anything is going with it. If I 'm forced to go to court because of this, they'll have to do a polygraph, won't they? That should clear everything up, right? But I also can't take confrontation, I get nervous no matter what anybody asks me. Will that affect a polygraph? I sure hope not. :/
I don't know what to do....!!!!!! 
Thanks to all this shyt, Rhiannon and I were forced to break up.  So, I've had a terrible week so far, and it's only Wednesday. -_-'
Oh dear........ somebody's at my house right now. Shyt, I'm scared. I don't know what to do.  What if they don't believe me...? And what if it's her uncle? :/
..........
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Posted on: June 9, 2010 - 11:29pm #1
 Take a deep breath .......... and another. First of all to clear up some of your questions. The older person is most likely to be charged if charges are filed, but that is unlikely given the lack of proof of anything. If the notebook doesn't provided evidence of wrongdoing and there are no witnesses then there is no case. Angry parents call the cops every day, and they call the various prosecutors offices everyday asking these sorts of questions and demanding that some kid be arrested and it rarely happens. Also the law in Florida is not what you think that it is, the statute actually says that no person over the age of 24 can have sex with a 16 or 17 year old. So the cut of for absolute consent is 18, but people over the age of 16 and up to 24 can have sex. Below the age of 16 but above the age of 14 is going to be a gray area and may be viewed through the lens of Romeo and Juliet laws. As to a polygraph test, they are very rarely considered to be useful as evidence and it is extremely hard to get one ordered, yes being nervous can  appear to effect the test but they establish a baseline of questions in order to account for this and they ask those questions periodically through the test in order to maintain the baseline. As to proving that you are a virgin yes doctors can check to see a specific detail of feminine anatomy and if it is still there. If it is not that does not establish that the girl is not a virgin because accidents can cause the same thing to happen it just means that she can't medically prove that she is a virgin.
Please relax, and establish a couple of simple plans. If her uncle or anyone from her family, church, friends of the family or anyone claiming to represent them shows up at your house, or bothers you at school or in public, call the police. If you receive any threats, call the police. If she is abused or harmed by him, call the police. If she is being forced to stay away from you try not to add to her pressure, that will be hard but consider how tenuous her position is.
Take care and try to just calm down.
 
Posted on: June 10, 2010 - 12:42pm #2
Thank you for clearing that up for me.
:)
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Posted on: June 10, 2010 - 10:54pm #3
 Any time, take care and don't let people get you too worked up.
Posted on: June 11, 2010 - 10:07am #4
Well, I haven't heard anything about it in a few days. I hope you were right, and nothing will happen, despite his efforts. :3 I still kind of freak out whenever my phone rings, or when my dogs go berzerk, though. :/
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Posted on: June 15, 2010 - 10:02am #5
 Good that you have not heard anything about it. Relax.
Posted on: June 15, 2010 - 5:20pm #6
It's now been over a week since I've heard anything, so I'm just like "whatever...." The only thing I worry about now is when I hear my dogs barking in the middle of the night--not because I'm afraid of the FEDs showing up, or that it's some crzy hicks, but because my best friend Kohtachen has this thing about being a stalkerslut in the middle of the night and deciding to come to my house at three a.m..-______-'  Love him to death, but,..... staaaalkerslut................ <_<
(Ich liebe dich, Kohtachen! ♥)
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Posted on: June 16, 2010 - 10:27pm #7
 I had a real stalker twice... imagine waking up and finding a 280lb woman standing over your bed watching you sleep... scary.. way scarier than the male stalker... he was just pitiable.
Posted on: June 20, 2010 - 5:01pm #8
Erm.... wow. o.o I've just had stalkerfriends. xD Kohtachen is the only one that tries to come to see me at three in the morning. The other was just a really reaaaally annoying girl that always followed m,e around when I didn't know she was there, and listen to all my conversations, and she was generally just the obsessed stalker kind of gal. xD These days I hang out with her sometimes.... key word is sometimes. :P I just don't ignore people. -____-'...even when they'r ecrazy stalkersluts. xD But Kohtachen doesn't count....... ;3
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