Really now? Just...really?-___-'
Posted on: June 9, 2010 - 7:10pm
Really now? Just...really?-___-'
So.
On Monday, I got to school, and I didn't see Rhiannon (had been my girlfriend since January) anywhere, until the bell sounded, and I Was walking to first period. Well, when I did see her, there was clearly something wrong.
Weeelllll....apparently, her uncle (whom is her legal guardian, and is also extremely homophobic) found our notebook, which includes every single conversation we've had since I considered coming out of the closet. It's also the only way we've been able to talk to each other because her uncle found out once before, and told her to stay the eff away from me, and never talk to me again, and so on.
Well. He found our notebook. Last time he flipped his lid. This time it's incomparable. Well, he skipped around a bit in our notebook, clearly not reading any actual sentences. I don't even know what he was basing anything on. But anyways, he started making all these false claims, and saying we were doing drugs, and we were sexually active, and all this shyt. Okay, first off- I'm an abstinent virgin, and I am firmly against sex before marriage. Secondly, I'm so againt drugs I don't even drink caffeine. Thirdly, the notebook doesn't say anything about drugs OR sex. Well, he called the effing State's Attorney's Office, and tried to get a restraining order against me to keep me away from Rhiannon. Not only that, but he's also trying to press charges saying I "Corrupted" her with sex and homosexuality. -______-'''''''''''' In the state of Florida, sex before you turn 18 is a felony and one of us would be charged with statutory rape. She is older, though. By two years. We didn't have sex or do drugs, but if they chose not to believe that for some reason, would it be her charged because she's older? I'm so confused by all this stuff....... :/
So, I found out about all of this Monday, and have been totally paranoid and freaking out since then. I absolutely despise homophobia, and the fact that I have to be paranoid all the time, every day, because I think that I'll get jumped by some rednecks who think homosexuality is corrupting souls. I have witnesses that I didn't do anything. And there's probably some way I could prove that I'm a virgin. (you can prove that, right? >_>)
But anyways, it's all jimmy jacked, and I don't know what to do, or where anything is going with it. If I 'm forced to go to court because of this, they'll have to do a polygraph, won't they? That should clear everything up, right? But I also can't take confrontation, I get nervous no matter what anybody asks me. Will that affect a polygraph? I sure hope not. :/
I don't know what to do....!!!!!!
Thanks to all this shyt, Rhiannon and I were forced to break up. So, I've had a terrible week so far, and it's only Wednesday. -_-'
Oh dear........ somebody's at my house right now. Shyt, I'm scared. I don't know what to do. What if they don't believe me...? And what if it's her uncle? :/
..........
On Monday, I got to school, and I didn't see Rhiannon (had been my girlfriend since January) anywhere, until the bell sounded, and I Was walking to first period. Well, when I did see her, there was clearly something wrong.
Weeelllll....apparently, her uncle (whom is her legal guardian, and is also extremely homophobic) found our notebook, which includes every single conversation we've had since I considered coming out of the closet. It's also the only way we've been able to talk to each other because her uncle found out once before, and told her to stay the eff away from me, and never talk to me again, and so on.
Well. He found our notebook. Last time he flipped his lid. This time it's incomparable. Well, he skipped around a bit in our notebook, clearly not reading any actual sentences. I don't even know what he was basing anything on. But anyways, he started making all these false claims, and saying we were doing drugs, and we were sexually active, and all this shyt. Okay, first off- I'm an abstinent virgin, and I am firmly against sex before marriage. Secondly, I'm so againt drugs I don't even drink caffeine. Thirdly, the notebook doesn't say anything about drugs OR sex. Well, he called the effing State's Attorney's Office, and tried to get a restraining order against me to keep me away from Rhiannon. Not only that, but he's also trying to press charges saying I "Corrupted" her with sex and homosexuality. -______-'''''''''''' In the state of Florida, sex before you turn 18 is a felony and one of us would be charged with statutory rape. She is older, though. By two years. We didn't have sex or do drugs, but if they chose not to believe that for some reason, would it be her charged because she's older? I'm so confused by all this stuff....... :/
So, I found out about all of this Monday, and have been totally paranoid and freaking out since then. I absolutely despise homophobia, and the fact that I have to be paranoid all the time, every day, because I think that I'll get jumped by some rednecks who think homosexuality is corrupting souls. I have witnesses that I didn't do anything. And there's probably some way I could prove that I'm a virgin. (you can prove that, right? >_>)
But anyways, it's all jimmy jacked, and I don't know what to do, or where anything is going with it. If I 'm forced to go to court because of this, they'll have to do a polygraph, won't they? That should clear everything up, right? But I also can't take confrontation, I get nervous no matter what anybody asks me. Will that affect a polygraph? I sure hope not. :/
I don't know what to do....!!!!!!
Thanks to all this shyt, Rhiannon and I were forced to break up. So, I've had a terrible week so far, and it's only Wednesday. -_-'
Oh dear........ somebody's at my house right now. Shyt, I'm scared. I don't know what to do. What if they don't believe me...? And what if it's her uncle? :/
..........
__________________
"I'm not an Angel any more. I'm your new God - a better one. So you will bow down and profess your love unto me, your Lord, or I shall destroy you." - Castiel [The Man Who Knew Too Much]



Please relax, and establish a couple of simple plans. If her uncle or anyone from her family, church, friends of the family or anyone claiming to represent them shows up at your house, or bothers you at school or in public, call the police. If you receive any threats, call the police. If she is abused or harmed by him, call the police. If she is being forced to stay away from you try not to add to her pressure, that will be hard but consider how tenuous her position is.
Take care and try to just calm down.
:)
"I'm not an Angel any more. I'm your new God - a better one. So you will bow down and profess your love unto me, your Lord, or I shall destroy you." - Castiel [The Man Who Knew Too Much]
"I'm not an Angel any more. I'm your new God - a better one. So you will bow down and profess your love unto me, your Lord, or I shall destroy you." - Castiel [The Man Who Knew Too Much]
(Ich liebe dich, Kohtachen! ♥)
"I'm not an Angel any more. I'm your new God - a better one. So you will bow down and profess your love unto me, your Lord, or I shall destroy you." - Castiel [The Man Who Knew Too Much]
"I'm not an Angel any more. I'm your new God - a better one. So you will bow down and profess your love unto me, your Lord, or I shall destroy you." - Castiel [The Man Who Knew Too Much]