wow, lesbians need to quit talking shit about me... well actually just people in general...
Posted on: August 22, 2008 - 1:00am
wow, lesbians need to quit talking shit about me... well actually just people in general...
so just a little preface here: a kind of friend of mine's gf started talking to me on myspace when school started (six days ago). her name's missy.
so today missy sends me a message on myspace the subject being "hey, just wondering" and the body reading
"but do u have a li crush on me or anything?
becuz i've kind of heard that u like me
n if u do its ok, i just wanted to no
if that was true or not."
so i'm six days into school and lesbians (or some other person) is ALREADY spreading rumors about me... so i dunno what it is about me that makes people do this, because the exact same thing happened last year just a little later (and i know it's not the same person because i got to a different school now). maybe they're jealous, or maybe feel threatened by my presence, but whatever it is they obviously are too insecure about something so they have to make me seem like the bad guy?
but sent her a message and part of her message back said "n i didnt want to be a mean person and not talk to u and ignor u and be a bitch, jsut becuz their is sum stupid rumor going around."
so, i've resolved this little problem fairly easily, but the bigger picture here is that if i'm having these petty little problems sooo early, what's going to happen later?
i don't get the point of drama. if i sense drama i run the other way (usually quite literally run). or if it's bad i find out whoever started it and scare the shit out of them so they leave me alone... i hope i don't have to resort to that this time.
so today missy sends me a message on myspace the subject being "hey, just wondering" and the body reading
"but do u have a li crush on me or anything?
becuz i've kind of heard that u like me
n if u do its ok, i just wanted to no
if that was true or not."
so i'm six days into school and lesbians (or some other person) is ALREADY spreading rumors about me... so i dunno what it is about me that makes people do this, because the exact same thing happened last year just a little later (and i know it's not the same person because i got to a different school now). maybe they're jealous, or maybe feel threatened by my presence, but whatever it is they obviously are too insecure about something so they have to make me seem like the bad guy?
but sent her a message and part of her message back said "n i didnt want to be a mean person and not talk to u and ignor u and be a bitch, jsut becuz their is sum stupid rumor going around."
so, i've resolved this little problem fairly easily, but the bigger picture here is that if i'm having these petty little problems sooo early, what's going to happen later?
i don't get the point of drama. if i sense drama i run the other way (usually quite literally run). or if it's bad i find out whoever started it and scare the shit out of them so they leave me alone... i hope i don't have to resort to that this time.
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What I used to do was go right up and ask people why they spent so much time thinking about me and talking about and it just seemed a littlle creepy. And that I didn't mind if they wanted to talk to me. Try saying that to a straightish guy in front of his friends LOL.
Seriously though, you will have to recognbize that you are an interesting peron to many simply because you stick out as different from the norm and in many cases you are willing to do what that person is affraif of or affraid to admit. It also sounds like your general personality is strong. Because of this you are going to pique their interest but you wil also catalize people to express srong feelings, you will be on their minds more often and they will wonder about you and you will inspire strong reactions from them.
Realize that when people are acting this way toward one of us it is not usually about us as people it is most often about something inside of that person. I'm not saying turn the other cheek or forgive and forget all I'm saing is be intensely aware of what you are dealing with and you will be better able to deal with it.
gladiatorgirl, i really wouldn't mind not being talked about, i'm sick of all the lesbian drama. i'm going into the navy.
so tonight at the school "luau" my friend and i were standing towards the entrance, and alex and missy come walking up and alex is trying to keep missy as far away and out of sight as possible from me, then she was trying to make me jealous or whatever and was all over her (which she usually isn't). so i found this quite amusing and whenever they weren't paying attention i'd be like "omg seriously, she's gunna be that immature?" and my friend is best friends with alex and she just laughed.
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yeah, i like the navy, not stupid like the marines or army, and not lazy like the air force.
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Silly drama seems to always pop up everywhere. I agree with Rob about confronting it face on.
It's silly that Alex feels so insecure about being with missy that he's gotta resort to maintaining a distance between you and her. It also bothers me that he'd think she's someone he has to keep you from stealing, which sort of commodifies missy as something he wants to keep.
Maybe you're just that hot. Or maybe he's just that insecure. Or maybe both and more? Drama like this always seems so silly and menial, but it's definitely not trivial. So keep an eye out and be safe. Who knows what insecure-Alex might resort to in fear of your hotness (or newness or difference or sexuality or .. etc.). ^_^
"No one has ever said that life is to be easy. Only that it is to be lived." - Grandmother in "The Road to Rankin's Point" by Alistair Macleod
and well tell everyone to fuck off....thats what i did i jus showed people i did not care what they said....or did
works out in the end....
And shepherds we shall be, For Thee, my Lord, for Thee. Power hath descended forth from Thy hand, That our feet may swiftly carry out Thy command. So we shall flow a river forth to Thee And teeming with souls shall it ever be. In nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti.
so adding to the drama... yeah so um... they broke up, and i was hanging out with missy and she um... kissed me, heh. so then she asked me to be her gf and well i said yeah, and then today alex finds out that missy and i are like talking or whatever and so all of a sudden wants missy back and says she was just "testing her" ... WTF? she says she loves her, but who in the hell tests their gf like that? that's sick and cruel.
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end results, missy and alex were the least of my problems. alex is actually one of my best friends now (we often enjoy comparing missy stories and making fun of her).
missy turned really psychotic, is going out with a guy(though she says she's a lesbian), and ate her feelings away after alex gave her the final boot.
my biggest problem this year was rotc, and a girl named kristina who got one of my friends arrested one kicked out of school and almost got a couple others expelled for things they didn't do... but we'll have our revenge ;)
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And shepherds we shall be, For Thee, my Lord, for Thee. Power hath descended forth from Thy hand, That our feet may swiftly carry out Thy command. So we shall flow a river forth to Thee And teeming with souls shall it ever be. In nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti.