My ex >-< ugh...advice for me, anyone??

Posted on: December 20, 2009 - 11:59pm
My ex >-< ugh...advice for me, anyone??
Mmkay, my last girlfriend, Savannah, won't leave me alone!! After telling me she would never hurt me, and would alwyas be there for me, no matter what, she cheats on me with THREE GUYS!! <THREE!!< So, of course, i had to break up with her, i mean, you don't do that to someone you care about. Then she was all "Oh Alex means nothing to me," and stuff, which pissed me off. Now she won't leave me alone. At lunch, she continues to try and sit at my table, and talk quite loud, and try and get my atention, and watnot. I already told her not to try and talk to me, and to leave me alone, and she wont! It's so annoying, and not to mention it hurts me. Like, on my way to first, she was walking really close to me, so i walked faster. Well, i go to open the door to my class, and she yells after me "I still love you..." She doesn't know what "Love" means. I broke up with her a little over a month ago, and she's still trying (unsuccessfully of course) She ruined my life for a while. As mentioned on my bio, even after i told her we had to be a secret, she told EVERYONE she knew we were dating. Everyone i walked by would scream at me, or trip me, or say something about it (inultingly) <is that a word? hmm.. i dunno.. anyway< I got totally depressed, like, crying in class, because people wouldn't leave me alone. I hate homophobia in people. All it causes, are for others to hurt. DAMN THEM ALL D:< haha, anyway.
Now, i've found someone else, who i believe i may be in love with. Whenever i hear from her, or see a message from her on myspace or anything, i always smile. She calls me things like "Beautiful," "love," "my Rhi," (hencing the "my" part in that <3), etc... however, unfortunately, we are not together, for she has a boyfriend, that won't be in contact to her until februrary:( Hmm... hopefully she'll be single by Valentines day? (;
but the point to this, is that even though i've found someone else, Savannah won't leave me aloone!!! >-< What do i do?? I told her not to try and talk to me, so i've been approaching the "not talk to her, no matter what" approach to it, but it seems to not be working.. Should i.. tell her everything that's on my mind? That would include many insults, though, and i hate hurting people's feelings, but duuude. It's starting to piss me off, and hurt my feelings. What should i do?????? >-<
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Posted on: December 21, 2009 - 3:47am #1
First, don't use insults until it becomes extremely necissary or however you spell it, or she seriously pisses you off. Not that she hasn't already, but it's important to be mature about things like this. If you freak out, it'll show her that you still feel something about it, which of course she'll take as you still feel something for her.
Give her the facts. This is whats going on and this is why I'm feeling this way and doing what I'm doing. You say you love me, but yet you cheat when it 'supposedly' means nothing to you. Then why did you do it in the first place. This is what I'm looking for, and it's just not going to happen here.
be very mature and nice.
if you freak out easily, write her a letter. Also, that way she can't turn your words around on you if you write it out.
If you feel you must, tell her about the other girl ,but don't push it in her face. Unless of course she's hurt you that much and it'll make you feel good. I know that wasn't the best advice but sometimes you just gotta.
Side Note- beware of the girl with a boyfriend. That rarely turns out good. Drama sucks.

If she still doesn't stop... tell her to fuck off.
I hope that wasn't completely useless information.
you ever need someone to talk to message me or somethin.
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Posted on: December 21, 2009 - 1:01pm #2
Thanksies. I'll write it in a letter, because I'm a writer/poet, and can put everything out better on paper, sooooo.....yeah. Thank you much :3 Hmm.... Wanna be friends? :)
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Posted on: December 22, 2009 - 3:24am #3
That would be absolutely fantastic!
That's awesome that you're a writer. I am too. Well ,I used to be. Now it all just comes out crap, but I try. there's an awesome place on here somewhere where you can post your writing. People don't do it so often. That should be changed.
Good luck with the letter.
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Posted on: December 23, 2009 - 3:00pm #4
Thanks^^
Really? i'm actually currently writing a book^^ I'm on page 66 :3 Hopefully, though, i'll be on page 66 by the end of the day :)
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Posted on: December 28, 2009 - 7:22pm #5
Awesome. Whats your book about. i always wanted to write a book but I pretty much suck at fiction. i could do an autobiography... but that could be scary. Like Horro/Mystery/Autobiography, make sure you got some scotch to get you through it.
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Posted on: December 30, 2009 - 12:40am #6
Wellz, it's (of course, knowing me XD) A gay love story :) Inspired by my best friend, who is gay :D I write it at school, so when the teachers see me writing, and ask me what i'm writing about and i tell them they're all like D: and i'm like "yep^^ Awesome right?^^"

but anyways, yeah. Asher&Kale :) I just finished Part I a couple days ago, so now i'm on Part II^^ YAY!
i dunno what im gonna call it when i'm done, though. -_-

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Posted on: December 30, 2009 - 2:36am #7
The title isn't so important. I always forget to title things. it'll come to you someday.
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Posted on: January 3, 2010 - 11:44pm #8
Yeah... You're right, my friend =3
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Posted on: January 4, 2010 - 10:49pm #9
awesome! I love being right.
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Posted on: January 5, 2010 - 2:14pm #10

Haha, I'm considering calling it "We Run," from a part later on that i haven't written yet, but will. It would be someething Asher said, that would lead to the climax of the book. But i dunno. Maybe, i'll see what Zak, Hailey, and Lauren think about it. (My top three supporters. They read it as i write =3)

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